Many of you are traveling across the globe to celebrate with us in China, so your presence means the world to us and is all we ask for. If you wish to contribute to our future, it is customary in Chinese weddings to give cash in red envelopes.
If you are unable to attend the wedding but still wish to contribute, you are welcome to give a red envelope before or after the celebration.
Click the link below for an idea of where to buy red envelopes.
You can definitely buy them anywhere but this gives you an idea of what to look for.
To understand more about this tradition, see below.
In Chinese weddings, giving cash in red envelopes (红包, hóngbāo) instead of boxed or registry gifts is deeply rooted in tradition, symbolism, and practicality. It’s not just a preference—it reflects cultural values around luck, respect, and social harmony.
The color red represents joy and prosperity, and the envelope itself is believed to bring positive energy and protection to the couple. The gift is seen as a blessing for our future together, not a transaction.
They are a culturally encoded way of saying:
“May your marriage be prosperous, smooth, and protected—and may you build your life together with good fortune.”
Cash is also considered the most thoughtful option, as it allows the couple to use it in ways that best support their new life — whether that’s covering wedding expenses, building a home, or planning for the future.
In Chinese culture, certain physical gifts can unintentionally carry unlucky meanings, so red envelopes help avoid that and ensure every gift is received in the spirit it’s intended.
If this tradition is new to you, please know that your presence and well wishes mean the most. Participating in this custom is entirely optional, and any amount is appreciated.